#STOPTHEICK
Sex isn’t part of your job description. When the vibe crosses the line, it’s not a joke. It’s an ICK and it might be harassment.
#StopTheIck is a movement to call out the cringey, creepy, and downright inappropriate behavior we too often normalize at work. This is a safe space to be heard, validated, and supported.
What does an ICK actually look like? Watch this hug ranking.
What’s an Ick?
An “ick” is that moment when workplace banter crosses the line—when a joke about your appearance, a too-long stare, or a “harmless” comment makes your skin crawl. If it feels inappropriate, it probably is. And it may be harassment.
- Being called “honey,” “sweetheart,” or other pet names by coworkers
- A boss asking you to perform a sexual act
- Unwanted comments about your body, outfit, or appearance
- “Accidental” physical contact that happens repeatedly
- Colleagues oversharing sexual experiences or fantasies
- Being pressured to go out after work to “be part of the team”
- Feeling like you’re being watched or followed at work
- Being asked invasive questions about your personal life
Is It Just an Ick... or Is It Illegal?
- “That’s what she said” during a Zoom call
- A coworker repeatedly making eye contact and licking their lips
- Suggestive memes shared in the group chat
- Being called “sweetheart” or “honey” in meetings
- Overly long hugs that feel off
- Unwanted sexual jokes that continue after being told to stop (Hostile Work Environment – NY Executive Law § 296)
- Repeated comments about your body or clothing (Sexual Harassment – Title VII of the Civil Rights Act)
- Touching without consent or brushing up unnecessarily (Unlawful Physical Contact – Civil Battery)
- Sexual advances tied to promotions or job security (Quid Pro Quo – NYC Admin Code § 8-107)
- Sharing pornographic material at work (Sexual Harassment – NYS Human Rights Law)
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Wondering If Your ICK Is More Than Just Gross?
If your workplace experience sounds like an ICK but feels like something worse, it might be illegal. Find out if you may be entitled to compensation — like lost wages, missed bonuses, or emotional damages.
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